Saturday, July 03, 2004

this was kinda.. hashed together from conversations

we, as humans, have different kinds of needs. when i feel lonely (or any of that like), it is a similar experience to being hungry or cold; the body sending a signal to the brain that tells it 'action is required'. now, our society seems bent on developing a situation of ONE MAN + ONE WOMAN, however, i don't agree with that system. so what i've done is created a system where we have a number of people we can go to as a sort of "food" for our interpersonal needs, when people are available to provide "food". however, i realize that people aren't available at all times.. somewhat like.. seasonal foods. it would be stupid of us to starve ourselves of interpersonal contact simply because it wasn't available at a specific time. so, we should have a number other people we can go to if we want human contact of any sort, be it anything from basic conversation/small talk to full blown sexual interaction. it takes the principals of a multi-friendship system and applies them to more emotional/physical activities. so far, i'm very, very happy with how things are working out, even though, for the most part, i haven't really felt the need to make use of anyone else who is interested in me, even though i've had the opportunity...... though, its reassuring to know the liberty is there, that i'm not hanging myself up on convention.

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